And it gets worse. These so called friends of mine have been sending emails to my husband this whole time behind my back insisting that he remain friends with the two of them even tho they apparently, just now out of the blue of three years of friendship, can’t be friends with me anymore. My husband just stood up for me for probably the first time in our marriage and I can’t believe, yet again, how much he loves me. I know this is killing him. I can’t imagine asking one of my friends to chose me over their spouse. How insensitive is that? It’s shocking really. They call me selfish, what the hell is that?